Reality #BehindTheScenes



The truth that's behind the shots on social media!

Let's get real guys. We can't help but feel a pang of envy, jealousy, frustration or even wanting to scream at the pictures and people.

But the truth is Not IN the photo

it is actually...around the corner NOT revealed to the public.

Our job as social media mavens is to make everything look effortless and click, edit just THE right shot.

During the clicking there are words, directions, frustrations and a craziness.

Revealed below.

The editing i do ,just clears up the pic and brightens. I don't believe in changing my face or body. It is what it is.

I shoot and edit all with my IPhone.

The fact is my laptop died three years ago and have never once missed it.

I am on the GO and do everything in my phone!

This past week as i documented our trip to Texas and back i was sick. The fact: I would do everything to muster a great shot as i was wheezing. A box of kleenex, mucinex and a hot tea in hand!

Two weeks ago i posted a pic of me knitting and said Blissful Afternoon. Well, The truth was my girlfriend was in pain i took her to the ER and then ran to take her dogs to the kennel and back to the hospital. It was a 5 hour day of driving filled with anxiety and a pending Nor'easter.

What Appears Fantastically Fabulous is Never The Whole Truth!

But, seriously isn't that how life is?

People sum up people on appearance!!

A whole other topic i will tackle later this week!

So, what's the point?

Relax, breathe and enjoy the photos as art NOT a lifestyle you're missing!

My stories are not unusual this is how Life is. Reality Behind The Scenes.

No need to have anxiety of missing out.

#Fomo No need to lust after someone's life!

No worries, envy or jealousy please.

Everyone is human. And every single person has their own pain, trauma and fabulous moments!

Shine up your Smile,

Click on your Heart Light Glow!

Love Completely

Live Effortlessly and

Hug Always!!!

Click "Like" with Love.

Watch Social Media as you would a TV show! Become Inspired. and Enjoy the Fantasy!




pointing to where i desired the click📷


too far away and not enough energy, but finally at the right angle. i had to get him #PoorPeter stoop down to get the look i had in my mind! 


wrong angle and def not getting whole shot..i was just about to say forget it..let's go... 


#TheDebbieFormula To Win.

Survival in any business is NEVER easy!

But, This remains true for #TheWin

Stay small

Stay True

High Integrity

Become Tireless

Make it Look Effortless

Always Operate from Joy

Teach yourself something daily

Remain Open


Keep your vision Intact

and Unpredictably FRESH!

Spin Magic Daily

Possess an  Insatiable Curiosity

Always be Available

Stay Ahead of Everyone

Be Compassionate Every Minute

Work from Truth Honesty And Fierce Intention


Well... And My Dad Trained me to be a Cockroach I'm hard to KILL no matter what i do!

Fourth generation Entrepreneur

Just Make it Happen!

No EGO NO Secrets &Always Humble

No expectations other than TRUE L❤VE for each of you... even when pushed by you😊

AND Have Fun!!! 


Thank you to each of you for your continued belief and loving support.

Yaaaaaaaaaaay!!!! Another DAY!! 

LET'S GO!!! 



It's NOT about the #RunWay

What is #NYFW?

Not the runway shows.

It's all about the #StreetStyle


We really get a chance to push our closets!

Have fun! Get dressed daily! and Be amongst our own!!!

We are birds of style who get to flock together

and show our

#EyeForDetail and complete confidence!!

WHY? I push you?

I dislike seeing you blend in.

I get sad that you fall into a routine.

I get frustrated your confidence doesn't allow you to push the envelope.

There is no age

no body shape that shouldn't revel in excitement of being ALIVE!!

Share every ounce of your individuality and smile! Feel your energy boost!

SHARE with the world!!

LIFE is about pushing and creating your very own distinctive footprint!

For you!

your children!

and your family!

Feel every breath. Smile as you #DressForTheDay and feel blessed you ARE Awake!!! Aware!!! And Blessed!!!!

I LOVE that you think me quirky, unusual and out there.

Try to keep up it's not easy!!

But, definitely a fun adventure.

Remember there are no boundaries!

other than what's inside of your head.

So STOP worrying about #TheOthers

and bring that glow back

share with the world!

Starting Today!